Dressing up is a choice and the last thing people, be it queer or straight or whomsoever, need to be told is how to dress,' Lavanya rightfully added. 'They don't attract the photographers but they're there. People have been coming to the pride parade in muted clothes too.'
Queer non-binary writer and theatre actor Lavanya said, 'Not everyone comes dressed up flamboyantly. And she wondered, 'Where do the quiet ones go?'. She said that when she went for Mardi Gras she saw 'her people' (members of LGBTQ community) for the first time. Hannah Gadsby, too, pointed this out in her show, Nanette.